致准备拿了年终奖辞职的你：生活不止眼前的苟且

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最近在知乎热榜上有这样一个问题，拿到年终奖后马上辞职，厚道吗？问题一出引起了网友的热议，多数网友认为拿年终奖后辞职是理所应当的。生活太艰难，正处在焦虑的人该如何抉择？

朋友C和朋友A都告诉我等拿到年终奖后就准备辞职，当我问到他们为什么想辞职的时候，他们给我的理由出奇的一致，觉得工作很没有意义，生活看不到希望。我也能感受到他们的焦虑，时不时都会听到“啊，好想辞职”这种哀叹，但其实都是为了发泄自己的焦虑感和迷茫感。今天的日常英语内容我们做了个调查，有人说，不辞职你永远过不上想要的生活，但能否过上想要的生活，绝不是因为辞职。

一、王飞 26岁 外卖骑手

The way I deal with anxiety is straightforward and I resign to travel. Looking back now, my story should be counter-example.

我应对焦虑的方法很直接，辞职去旅行。现在回想，我的故事应该是反例了。

I took delivery in shanghai, and entered the Eleme in March 2015. Although I have worked for almost a year, sometimes I faced some unserviceable customers, the mood will be unhappy all day. Of course, there have some people who received the meal will say thank you, which let me persevere.

我在上海饿了么送外卖，前年3月份入职的。虽然工作快一年了，但是面对故意为难的客户，心情还是会不爽一整天。当然，也有可能是那些接到餐后，说谢谢的客户让我一直坚持了下来。

In October last year, I was peovoked by a customer and finally resigned. But the second month without income, I collapsed. The consumption in Shanghai is also relatively high, and I also want to understand something. The word "Life is not only work but also have poet and future” is a bowl of venomous chicken soup" and I started to find a job again.

去年10月份，被一个客户气得原地爆炸，最终是辞职了。但没有收入来源的第二个月，我就崩溃了。在上海的消费也比较高，我也想明白了，人生不止是工作还有诗和远方原来是“一碗毒鸡汤”，我又重新开始找工作。

I do not like my job, but I do not know what else I can do.

我不喜欢我的工作，又不知道还能做什么。

二、小佳 22岁 客服

After graduation, I worked in apples as a customer service. Until now, when someone heard me working at Apple, his eyes shone, and then asked me if I had an in-house purchase price, which made me a little bit of a laughing and crying.

毕业后，就入职苹果，当客服。到现在还有人一听到我在苹果工作，两眼就放光，问我有没有内购价，搞得我有点哭笑不得。

Apple should be a large number of customer service at that time, I work through the employment platform is very easy to start. At first, even myself think working at Apple made me different. But it turns out to be painful if the job attracts you just with the halo attached to it. In particular, life abducted by vanity is bumpy everyday.

当时应该是苹果大量招客服，我通过就业平台很轻松就入职了。一开始，连我自己都觉得在苹果公司工作，让我与众不同了。但事实证明，如果工作吸引你的只是它附加的光环，会让你感到痛苦。特别是被虚荣绑架的生活，每天都很颠簸。

Many people think that you must findyour love then not have anxiety. But to confirm what you do not like is also a solution. If you can not imagine what you look like in the future, you can list  things you do not like to start.

很多人觉得，必须要找到人生热爱才不焦虑。但确认自己不喜欢什么，也是一种解决方式。如果你想象不到自己未来的样子，可以先从列出自己不喜欢的事情开始。

三、李大叔 24岁 市场营销

I found my job in Chengdu in September this year. In January this year, I went to see the leaders to talk about promotion and pay increase. But my boss said as usual, saying that I have to study more.

我是15年9月到成都找的工作，今年1月份我去找领导提升职和涨薪，可领导和往常一样，总是打太极，说我得再磨练些时日。

Maybe my boss really remembered, in June I took more a 300 million contract to him and asked for promotion. The leader said that this time your commission is high, the company's return on your business ability has been reflected in the commission. After careful consideration, I decided to go to the resign and interview the big company.

可能是领导真的忘了，6月份的时候我拿着300多万的合同，跟他提升职。领导说，这次你的提成很高了呀，公司对你业务能力的回报已经在提成上体现出来了。仔细考虑后，我决定先去辞职，再去大公司面试。

In fact, the issue of raising the salary and promotion is not sought. Instead, it constantly evaluates your value.

其实加薪和升职这件事不是求来的，而是随着你的价值增长。

四、Windy 26岁 外贸业务员

I am in English major. After I graduated, I went to English training institute for children as an English teacher. After two years of working, I felt tired of the day-to-day work of coaxing children and quit my job. Later, I changed to do foreign trade salesman, and now has done for two years, I really bitter.

我是英语专业的，刚毕业就去少儿英语培训机构当英语老师，做了两年后觉得厌倦了那种每天和哄孩子的工作日常，一狠心就辞职了。后来又改行去做外贸业务员，到现在也做了两年了，真的很苦逼。

Every day from morning to night I am busy in company, and also have to keep staring at the computer to contact customer. I stay up all night until two or three in the morning has been normal. Whenever I look in the mirror, I ask myself, is this really the life I want?

每天从早到晚在公司忙完，晚上回家也要继续盯着电脑联系客户，熬夜熬到凌晨两三点已经是常态了。每当我照镜子的时候，都会问自己，这真的是我想要的生活吗？

A month ago I planned to resign after finishing the year-end bonus at the end of the year. However, I did not expect to gain a continuous succession of four orders in the last month. I suddenly found that it is not hard for me but work insistently.

一个月前我就打算好年底拿完年终奖就辞职，但没想到最后一个月里我连续开了四单，我突然发现，工作其实并不难，难的是坚持。

可能有些人看完今天的日常英语内容，依然没有改变想法，但任何收获都必须要先付出，而坚持也是付出必不可少的因素。而人只有在迷茫时才会抬头，焦虑也是一样，因为你想要前进。生活不止眼前的苟且，可能你再多坚持一下，就能看到你想要的诗和远方。